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The Daily 2/28/26

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“Never bend your head. Always hold it high. Look the world straight in the eye.”– Helen Keller

Wendy’s burgers were originally square for marketing purposes. According to Wendy’s founder, Dave Thomas, wanted customers to be able to see how high-quality the meat looked, so he made sure the patties extended beyond their buns.

What do you consider your greatest achievement?.

My greatest achievement is my ongoing journey to manage my social anxiety and to fully embrace the life I want to live. Tackling social anxiety is not just about overcoming fears; it’s about understanding myself better, recognizing my triggers, and actively working towards building confidence in social situations.

Every small step I take, whether it’s striking up a conversation with a stranger, participating in group activities, or simply allowing myself to be vulnerable in front of others, is a victory. I’ve learned that it’s okay to feel discomfort and that growth often happens outside of my comfort zone.

Living my life authentically means prioritizing my mental health while pursuing my passions, interests, and connections with others. I’ve crafted a life that aligns with my values, seeking out supportive communities and relationships that uplift me. This journey has taught me resilience, as I continue to challenge myself and redefine what living fully means to me. Embracing this process has become my greatest achievement, one that I proudly celebrate every day.

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The Daily 2/24/26

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“Just because it’s what’s done doesn’t mean it’s what should be done!”- Cinderella

Disney once explored the idea of adapting the medieval European tale of Reynard the Fox into an animated feature. But Reynard’s reputation for mischief and morally questionable tricks was ultimately considered too dark for a family film. Instead, when creating Robin Hood in 1973, the studio simply made their hero a fox.

What is your current state of mind?

Lately, I’ve been feeling a mix of emotions that have left me in a bit of turmoil. I’m unsure about certain aspects of my life, whether it’s decisions I need to make or future plans that seem uncertain. This uncertainty often leads to feelings of worry, as I find myself overthinking possible outcomes and what they might mean for me.

Alongside that worry, there’s an underlying anxiety that I can’t quite shake. It feels like a constant buzz in my mind, making it hard to focus on anything else. I’m anxious about how things will unfold and whether I’ll be able to handle whatever comes my way.

Lastly, there’s also a sense of fear that creeps in, especially when I think about situations that are out of my control. It can be overwhelming at times, feeling that I’m facing the unknown, and that fear can often feel isolating, as if I’m standing afar from the things I want to engage with or achieve. Overall, these feelings are interconnected and create a challenging emotional landscape that I’m trying to navigate.

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What is your greatest fear?

My greatest fear is not being enough and feeling I must change who I am to earn love or care. I’m working on this in therapy; my therapist says I’ve improved and will continue to work with me on it.

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What is your greatest extravagance?

My greatest extravagance is the way I care past the edges of what’s expected. I give more attention, more thought, and more emotional presence than the moment demands — not to earn anything, but because that’s the shape of my heart. It’s an overflow I don’t try to contain. I notice the small things, remember what others forget, and show up with sincerity even when silence would be easier.

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What do you consider the most overrated virtue?

The virtue I find most overrated is people‑pleasing. Not because kindness is unimportant, but because I’ve spent too much of my life shrinking myself to keep others comfortable. People call it being sweet or helpful, but the truth is that constantly managing everyone else’s emotions comes at the cost of my own. It’s a habit that gets praised far more than it deserves, and unlearning it has become part of getting to know who I actually am.

I’m learning that kindness doesn’t require self‑abandonment, and caring for others doesn’t mean disappearing from myself.

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What is your idea of perfect happiness?

Here are some of my foundations for perfect happiness. The first is having moments of presence, like when I can really enjoy a cup of tea and taste it fully. I also find happiness in mindfully taking a walk, where I pay attention to the colors and textures around me, noticing how the leaves change or feeling the roughness of a tree bark.

Another key part of my happiness is tapping into my creative flow. Whether I’m writing a poem, drawing, or painting, these activities make me feel alive and joyful. When I’m in that creative zone, I feel a deep sense of happiness and contentment. Being able to express myself through art is truly a special part of my life.

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  1. What was your favorite subject in school and why? Okay, this might shock some, but my favorite subject in school was math. I loved that math was right or wrong, and there was no between. Just recently, I started to understand and appreciate writing.
  2. What book had a significant impact on you? 19 Minutes by Jodi Picoult had a significant impact on me. It covered everything in the book and dealt with hard subjects, presenting the story from all parties involved.
  3. Do you have a favorite local restaurant or café? I would have to say that my favorite local restaurant is Sergio’s. It is a Mexican restaurant that serves amazing authentic food.

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