Getting to Know Missy

Should parenting classes be mandatory for new parents?

Yes, I think they should.

Not because parents are “unprepared” or “don’t know what they’re doing,” but because raising a human being is one of the most important responsibilities anyone can take on—and we don’t treat it that way. We expect people to just figure it out, often without support, guidance, or a community to lean on.

Parenting classes, when done well, aren’t about telling people how to raise their kids. They’re about giving families tools, confidence, and a foundation to build on. Things like:

• Understanding child development so parents know what’s normal, what’s not, and what behaviors are actually age‑appropriate.
• Learning how to communicate with kids in ways that build trust instead of fear.
• Knowing how to set boundaries that are healthy, consistent, and rooted in connection.
• Recognizing signs of stress, postpartum challenges, or developmental concerns early, so families can get support instead of struggling alone.
• Building a support network—because parenting is easier when you’re not isolated.

To me, making parenting classes mandatory isn’t about control. It’s about equity. Not everyone grows up with healthy models of parenting. Not everyone has access to mentors, resources, or guidance. Classes level the playing field so every child has a better chance at a safe, stable, nurturing start.

And honestly, even the most loving, well‑intentioned parents benefit from learning, reflecting, and having a space to ask questions without judgment.

Parenting is too important to leave people to “figure it out” in the dark. If we can offer support before the overwhelm hits, why wouldn’t we?