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Getting to Know Missy

What do you consider the most overrated virtue?

The virtue I find most overrated is people‑pleasing. Not because kindness is unimportant, but because I’ve spent too much of my life shrinking myself to keep others comfortable. People call it being sweet or helpful, but the truth is that constantly managing everyone else’s emotions comes at the cost of my own. It’s a habit that gets praised far more than it deserves, and unlearning it has become part of getting to know who I actually am.

I’m learning that kindness doesn’t require self‑abandonment, and caring for others doesn’t mean disappearing from myself.

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Hidden Valley Ranch is more than just a dressing: It was a real place in Santa Barbara, California, that became famous for its house condiment.

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JusJoJan- Celebrate

We always remember to celebrate the big wins—graduations, promotions, milestones—but the small wins matter just as much. Finishing a tough week, making someone smile, or even just crossing something off your to-do list all deserve a little celebration. Those small victories add up and keep us going!

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JusJoJan- Rubbish

Rubbish is such a great word—it makes even the most annoying stuff sound a little bit funny. Whether you’re talking about nonsense, a pile of clutter, or just a bad day, calling it rubbish somehow makes it easier to handle. Sometimes you just have to laugh and toss the rubbish aside!

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JusJoJan- Philosophy

Philosophy was tough for me in college because it always felt like there were a hundred different answers to every question—and none of them were quite right! I’d leave class with my head spinning, wondering if I even knew what a chair was anymore. It was a real mental workout, for sure.

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Director David Lynch, born on January 20th, 1946, attended the inauguration of John F Kennedy in 1961 when he was fifteen. Along with hundreds of other Boy Scouts. Lynch saw Kennedy, along with outgoing President Dwight D. Eisenhower and future presidents Richard Nixon and Lyndon B. Johnson, as their limos drove by. “I realized I saw four consecutive presidents in that short amount of time, 10 inches from my face,” he told Scouting magazine in 2017.

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JusJoJan- Unspoken

Funny how the most meaningful things can stay unspoken. A quick glance, a shared laugh, or just sitting together in silence—sometimes those unspoken moments say everything we need. It’s pretty cool how much we can share without ever saying a word.

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The largest crowd ever assembled to watch a wrestling event was in Pyongyang, North Korea, in 1995. It’s estimated that more than 300,00+ people attended the two-day event, but that probably wasn’t because of some latent love for sports entertainment in the isolated nation. As professional wrestler Scott Norton told Sports Illustrated, his limo driver clued in the American on what made the event so popular: attendance was mandatory.

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JusJoJan- Mindfulness

Mindfulness isn’t about sitting cross-legged for hours or clearing your mind of every thought. It’s simply about being present—really noticing your coffee in the morning, tuning in to your breath when things feel overwhelming, or savoring a good laugh. Tiny pauses like these can make your day feel lighter and more connected. I think it is more complicated than it sounds, but I keep giving it a shot.

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JusJoJan 1/22/26

Patience is one of my strongest traits—most days, I’m the person who can wait in a long line without complaint or listen quietly while someone shares a story I’ve already heard. I take pride in keeping calm and letting things unfold in their own time.

But I’ll admit: there are moments when impatience gets the best of me. When it comes to waiting for a package, I’ve been excited about, or sitting through slow-loading technology, my patience can wear thin.

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Prior to Kohl’s department store, Max Khol opended Khol’s supermarket, which eventually became Khol’s Food Store- and instead of abandoning his orginal concept entirely, khol expanded into department stores and kept both. Khol’s Food Stores were sold to A&P in 1983

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Getting to Know Me

What is your idea of perfect happiness?

Here are some of my foundations for perfect happiness. The first is having moments of presence, like when I can really enjoy a cup of tea and taste it fully. I also find happiness in mindfully taking a walk, where I pay attention to the colors and textures around me, noticing how the leaves change or feeling the roughness of a tree bark.

Another key part of my happiness is tapping into my creative flow. Whether I’m writing a poem, drawing, or painting, these activities make me feel alive and joyful. When I’m in that creative zone, I feel a deep sense of happiness and contentment. Being able to express myself through art is truly a special part of my life.