What do you consider the most overrated virtue?

The virtue I find most overrated is people‑pleasing. Not because kindness is unimportant, but because I’ve spent too much of my life shrinking myself to keep others comfortable. People call it being sweet or helpful, but the truth is that constantly managing everyone else’s emotions comes at the cost of my own. It’s a habit that gets praised far more than it deserves, and unlearning it has become part of getting to know who I actually am.
I’m learning that kindness doesn’t require self‑abandonment, and caring for others doesn’t mean disappearing from myself.




