The word “okay” has become a default response in many of my conversations, often used as a quick and convenient answer to the “how are you?” question. It’s a way to avoid delving into deeper feelings or thoughts. As I continue to work on reducing my use of this word, I’ll remember that it’s okay to share my real feelings and experiences, even if they’re not always positive. This can create opportunities for authentic conversations and deeper connections with those around me.
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2. When was your last field trip? The last field trip I had was when I went with my friend to paint the picture above 3. What is your favourite past time as an adult? My favorite pastime is creating art and lately I have been gaining confidence in my writing which is now starting to become a pastime. 4. Do people ask you for advice? Yes, I do have people coming to me for advice and at times it can be overwhelming, but I have learned to put up boundaries if needed and I actually like helping others.
Gratitude:
For being alive another day
For Friends who encourage me to take risk
For the ability to create art that brings me joy
For those family members who have my back
For my therapist who has been helping me overcome my anxieties.
Witnessing acts of kindness and compassion always brings tears of joy to my eyes. Whether it’s seeing strangers helping each other or experiencing heartwarming moments of human connection, the simple yet powerful gestures of empathy and generosity never fail to move me. It’s inspiring to see the goodness in people and the positive impact that each individual can have on others.
I write a blog to feel more confident about expressing my thoughts and ideas and to share my work with others. It’s a place where I can show my creative and skilled side while connecting with people who have similar interests. A friend also encouraged me to do so. Also, when I blog, I get helpful feedback that helps me improve as a writer and creator.
When my mom was young, she watched Little House on the Prairie and absolutely fell in love with it. The heartfelt stories and strong characters made a lasting impression on her. She was particularly taken with the actresses Melissa Gilbert and Melissa Sue Anderson, who portrayed the characters of Laura and Mary Ingalls. So, when it came time to choose a name for me, she decided to use the names of these two actresses.
I find having a few close friends really gives me a boost. They’re always there for me, whether I’m going after my goals or dealing with tough times. We cheer each other on, celebrate when things go well, and create a safe place for talking about worries. Their upbeat attitude and strong belief in me keep me going, even when times are hard. Knowing they support me gives me the courage and confidence to chase after my dreams with excitement.
I think mine is going to be a different answer than everyone else. What I enjoy most about writing is that I am slowly gaining my confidence back that I am a good writer. I had many occurrences throughout my younger years when my writing was put down. So, I gained a mindset that I could not write, and I became very self-conscious whenever I did.
I find drawing to be a deeply enjoyable and fulfilling habit. There’s something incredibly satisfying about putting pencil to paper and bringing my imagination to life. Whether it’s sketching scenes from nature or creating abstract designs, drawing allows me to express myself in a unique and beautiful way. It brings me a sense of calm and contentment, and I often find myself lost in the process, completely absorbed in the act of creating something new. Also, when I can I enjoy showing my art to my readers.
Allie was an alligator unlike any other in the swamp. While most of her fellow gators were fearless and bold, she was anxious and fearful. She didn’t understand why she was so different, but it seemed to affect every aspect of her life.
While other alligators spent their days basking in the sun and hunting for food, Allie could often be found hiding in the shadows, her heart racing with fear. She was terrified of the unknown, of things she couldn’t control, and of the other creatures in the swamp
Allie’s anxiety had been with her ever since she was a hatchling. She was always the smallest of her siblings, and her parents were overprotective, warning her of all the dangers in the swamp. As she grew older, her anxiety only intensified, and she struggled to fit in with the other gators.
One day, while hiding in the shadows, Allie overheard the other gators talking about a new alligator in the swamp. His name was Derek, and he was known for his bravery and strength. The other alligators were impressed by him, but Allie felt a wave of jealousy and inadequacy wash over her. She knew she could never be like Derek.
But fate had other plans for Allie. As luck would have it, she and Derek crossed paths while hunting for food. Derek was immediately drawn to Allie’s shy and anxious demeanor, and he could tell she was different from the other gators.
He approached her cautiously, not wanting to startle her, and introduced himself. Allie was taken aback by Derek’s kindness and couldn’t believe he wanted to be friends with her. They began talking, and Allie found herself opening up to Derek about her anxiety and fears.
To her surprise, Derek was understanding and empathetic. He shared his own struggles and helped Allie understand that her anxiety was nothing to be ashamed of. With his support, Allie started to come out of her shell, and she and Derek became the closest of friends.
Derek showed Allie how to be brave and face her fears head-on. He taught her how to swim faster and hunt for food more efficiently. He even introduced her to other creatures in the swamp, showing her that they weren’t as scary as she thought.
As their friendship grew, Allie’s anxiety started to fade away. She gained confidence and was no longer afraid to explore the swamp. She even joined Derek in basking in the sun and taking on some of the bigger predators like the crocodiles and pythons.
Allie’s transformation was remarkable, and her family couldn’t believe the change in her. They were proud of her and happy that she had found such a good friend in Derek. Allie realized that she didn’t have to be like the other gators in the swamp. She could be her unique self, and that was more than enough.
Allie’s anxiety may have been a burden, but it also led her to meet her best friend and find courage she never knew she had. From that day on, Allie was no longer known as the anxious alligator. She was Allie, the brave and fearless gator who had found her place in the swamp.
I believe that we should strive to create a society where compassion and empathy are the guiding principles in our interactions with one another. This means taking the time to understand and appreciate the experiences and challenges of others, and offering support and kindness whenever possible. By promoting a culture of compassion, we can create a more inclusive and supportive society for everyone.
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